女生必讀：有效應(yīng)對(duì)性騷擾的防狼指南.

　　性騷擾(sexual harassment)已經(jīng)成為一個(gè)非常普遍的社會(huì)問題。受害對(duì)象也不再僅限于女性。面對(duì)性騷擾，是應(yīng)該忍氣吞聲，淡化影響，還是起身抗?fàn)幠?

　　Have you ever been inappropriately touched by strangers oncrowded buses or subways? Have you ever received anysuggestive text messages from people you barely know?

　　你曾在擁擠的公交或地鐵上遭遇過“咸豬手”嗎?你曾經(jīng)收到過來自陌生人的挑逗短信嗎?

　　A recent survey conducted by students from the School of Public Health at Sun Yat-sen Universityfound that 81 percent of the students they surveyed wanted to know how to protect themselvesfrom sexual harassment, and 61 percent were worried about preventing it from occuring.

　　不久前，幾名來自中山大學(xué)公共衛(wèi)生學(xué)院的學(xué)生進(jìn)行了一項(xiàng)調(diào)查，結(jié)果顯示81%的受訪者想知道如何應(yīng)對(duì)性騷擾，61%的受訪學(xué)生擔(dān)心不知如何阻止性騷擾。

　　But what exactly is sexual harassment? “Sexual harassment can be dined as words orconduct of a sexual nature that create an embarrassing, hostile, humiliating or offensive situationfor the victim,” said Chen Zuhui, a doctoral candidate of Public Health at Jinan University in Guangzhou.

　　“而性騷擾到底是什么?廣州暨南大學(xué)公共衛(wèi)生專業(yè)博士生陳祖輝(音譯)認(rèn)為：“性騷擾可以被定義為：令受害者感到尷尬、敵意、羞辱或無(wú)禮的性暗示語(yǔ)言或行為?！?/p>

　　According to him, it can involve a wide range of actions, including gestures, physical acts, sexual innuendos, and verbal demands for sexual favors. It can be as seemingly innocent as someone asking if you got laid over the weekend.

　　陳祖輝認(rèn)為，性騷擾的范圍很廣，包括手勢(shì)、動(dòng)作、性暗示以及口頭要求。性騷擾有時(shí)看上去好像是無(wú)意冒犯，例如說有人會(huì)問你周末和人上過床沒有?

　　“Sometimes these signs are so subtle that it’s tough to recognize them. But don’t wait until they become serious bore taking action,” Chen said.

　　陳祖輝說：“有時(shí)候這些性騷擾的跡象很隱晦，以致于很難發(fā)現(xiàn)。但是不要等到事態(tài)嚴(yán)重時(shí)才有所行動(dòng)?！?/p>

　　“Sexual harassment is not a condition experienced just by women, men can face it as well,” headed.

　　陳祖輝補(bǔ)充道：“性騷擾不僅僅是女性會(huì)面對(duì)的狀況，男人也可能會(huì)遭遇性騷擾”

　　Ma Xiaoli, 19, a sophomore majoring in journalism at Wuhan University, has experienced such issues. She noticed that several male students in her classfrequently told dirty jokes in her presence, or sent her flirtatious text messages. Some of them even touched her when talking to her.

　　就讀于武漢大學(xué)新聞專業(yè)的大二學(xué)生、19歲的馬曉麗(音譯)就曾經(jīng)歷過性騷擾事件。她發(fā)現(xiàn)班上有幾名男生經(jīng)常當(dāng)著她的面講一些“黃段子”，或者給她發(fā)一些調(diào)情短信，有幾個(gè)人甚至?xí)诤退f話時(shí)有肢體接觸。

　　“I felt very uncomfortable about all this, but I didn’t know what to do,” she described. “I considered it too embarrassing to tell teachers or friends.”

　　馬曉麗表示;“我覺得非常不自在，但又不知道該怎么做。我覺得這太尷尬了，根本沒辦法告訴老師或朋友。”

　　Psychological experts warn that sexual harassment might start as a one-off event, but the moment it becomes routine a victim’s life can descend into a nightmare.

　　心理學(xué)家提醒，性騷擾可能始于單一事件，但是一旦它成了家常便飯的話，受害者的生活可能會(huì)演變成一場(chǎng)噩夢(mèng)。

　　Liu Yanjie, deputy director of the Student Office at Xiamen University urges those affected by sexual harassment to take action. The first step is to clearlycommunicate the problem.

　　廈門大學(xué)學(xué)生工作處副處長(zhǎng)劉艷杰鼓勵(lì)那些遭遇性騷擾的人采取行動(dòng)。第一步是就這一問題明確表明態(tài)度?！?/p>

　　For instance, when a stranger makes an offensive remark toward you, you can politely tell him or her to stop. If someone touches you often, just say: “Could you please avoid putting your handson me? It makes me uncomfortable”.

　　比如說，當(dāng)一個(gè)陌生人對(duì)你言語(yǔ)冒犯時(shí)，你可以禮貌地加以制止。如果有人經(jīng)常碰觸你的身體，你只要說：“請(qǐng)不要把手放在我身上，這讓我感到不舒服?！?/p>

　　Chen also suggests being assertive in what you say. “Protest while there are other people around who can act as witnesses, and don’t laugh or smile or do anything else to make the harasser think you are joking,” he mentioned.

　　陳祖輝還建議道，要果斷做出言語(yǔ)上的回應(yīng)，他提到：“當(dāng)還有其他人在場(chǎng)時(shí)，要抗議，他人可以成為目擊者;不要大笑、微笑，或做出其他會(huì)讓騷擾者認(rèn)為你在開玩笑的行為。”

　　If this still doesn’t stop the offender, it’s wise to keep a record of all incidents that have occurred.Write down the timing and exactly what happened, as well as the names of people who saw it happen. Save any texts, sound recordings or pictures you receive as evidence.

　　如果這樣還不能夠阻止騷擾者，最好將已經(jīng)發(fā)生的事件記錄下來。寫下時(shí)間、事情發(fā)生的經(jīng)過、以及目擊者的名字，保留短信、錄音或是圖片以作為證據(jù)。

　　It’s also important to speak out to others. “Don’t blame yourself. You didn’t ask to be harassed.Likewise, you shouldn’t deny what’s happening or downplay the fects of harassment,” said Guan Kuiling, a teacher of Psychological Consultation at the Ocean University of China.

　　與人傾訴這點(diǎn)也很重要。來自中國(guó)海洋大學(xué)的心理咨詢老師管葵玲(音譯)說：“不要自責(zé)，誰(shuí)都不想遭遇性騷擾。同樣，你也不應(yīng)回避已經(jīng)發(fā)生的事，輕視性騷擾所造成的影響?！?/p>

　　Liu advises harassed students to go to an authority figure for help. “You can report an incident to a trusted teacher or other faculty members,” she said. “Schooladministrators and campus police al so have to ensure that your learningenvironment is free from sexual harassment.”

　　劉艷杰老師建議遭受性騷擾的學(xué)生應(yīng)向校方管理人員求助，她說：“你可以向值得信賴的老師或其他教職員匯報(bào)所發(fā)生的事情。同時(shí)，學(xué)校管理者以及校警也必須保障一個(gè)沒有性騷擾的學(xué)習(xí)環(huán)境?！?/p>